Coming from the perspective of another man….I’m in total agreement with your post about hoochie skirts. It’s true; men like to look at women’s bodies. That doesn’t mean we like to do it for respectable reasons.
There’s a difference between a guy looking for “a good time” and a guy looking for a close friend to share things with. Women who attract attention using their womanly wiles and provocative sex appeal will receive the immediate attention they’re looking for. They will get the attention, but it will cost them the respect and wholesome intent they deserve.
In the end, when the man decides he wants another “pretty lil thing” under his arm, that same woman will be left scouring the networks for another man. She’ll never get the respect she deserves because she doesn’t have it for herself.
And let’s not talk about the first time she starts “acting ugly” and then blaming it on her time of the month. It takes more than a pretty face and a nice body to keep a man interested when he knows he’s gonna have to deal with PMS. She better have more going for her than just good looks.
Woman might not know this, but men categorize woman. There’s a difference between a fun woman to date and hang-out with and a woman to have a potentially serious relationship with. If the man is lucky, he can find both aspects in one woman. If he’s not so lucky, he’ll settle for 1 out of 2 and it doesn’t matter which one. One thing is for sure…every man has heard the term “never make a Ho a housewife” (my apologies for the harsh language). Let’s be honest with the woman men….most of them will never go home to meet moms (unless you’re doing it to make them “feel special”). This might seem shallow, but oh well…its true.
As for the comment made by the lady calling people haters and prudes….. Who cares what she thinks? I mean seriously, she already admits her personal appearance is dictated by fashion magazines. In truth, I should just rest my case now. That fact alone should be enough for any intelligent person to see what type of woman she is. But… a blind man can see that she’s a part of the problem. That mentality alone is the very manifestation of the warped thinking that’s being perpetuated in the first place.
It’s the silliest thing I’ve ever heard. Women want to walk around arousing the carnal instincts in men who look at them, BUT at the same time they want to be treated with respect. YEAH RIGHT, not gonna happen. Any respect you think you’re receiving is all a lie because most men don’t have respectful thoughts about women who flare up their sexual desires. They have lustful thoughts and the only thing they’re interested in doing is fulfilling those desires when they make their move. It’s not the personality or the modest/classy attire that brought them to this moment. It’s the advertising of the woman’s skin and form that’s attracting all the attention.
Don’t dangle a piece of steak in front of a hungry pit-bull (carnal nature of men) and then wonder why he’s not acting like the poodle you think he should be.
Peace and blessings